[Marxism] ‘Eleanor Marx: A Life,’ by Rachel Holmes

Louis Proyect lnp3 at panix.com
Sun Apr 5 09:13:36 MDT 2015

NY Times Sunday Book Review
‘Eleanor Marx: A Life,’ by Rachel Holmes

A Life
By Rachel Holmes
Illustrated. 508 pp. Bloomsbury Press. $35.

Three women possessed of extraordinary political talent loved men who 
were unworthy of them: Rosa Luxemburg, Emma Goldman and Eleanor Marx. 
The first two survived these debilitating attachments, the third did 
not. At the age of 43, upon learning that her common law husband of 14 
years had secretly married a 22-year-old actress, Eleanor took poison 
and died. Had her father, Karl Marx, been alive he would have been not 
only distressed by her death but, I think, dismayed that a daughter of 
his could not surmount this level of betrayal, for the sake of 
international socialism if nothing else.

Karl and Jenny Marx were married in 1843. At the time, Marx was already 
a law student turned radical journalist, his writings and his political 
activity contributing to the turbulent times that would soon explode 
into the 1848 revolutions that shook but did not topple the monarchies 
of Europe. As his work was forever drawing the attention of hostile 
governments everywhere, Marx and his wife were often on the move, 
expelled from or fleeing one country or another — Germany, France, 
Belgium — usually a minute before Karl was about to be arrested.

After the publication of “The Communist Manifesto” in 1848, life on the 
European continent became truly perilous for the Marxes, and the 
following year they moved to London. There they lived, for the rest of 
their lives in a combined state of immigrant want and bohemian 
intellectualism, continually bailed out by Marx’s devoted collaborator, 
the wealthy Friedrich Engels. As a grown woman, Eleanor, bent on 
indicting capitalism, wrote that in London the family endured “years of 
horrible poverty, of bitter suffering — such suffering as can only be 
known to the penniless stranger in a strange land.” This was true, but 
it was also true that together the family read Shakespeare, took long 
walks, listened to music, had Sunday open houses to which every 
revolutionary visitor or exile in London came, and talked politics 
nonstop. For better and for worse, it was a life of physical hardship 
made vibrant by the sense of mission that flowed from the Great Man who 
sat writing “Das Kapital” at the kitchen table for some 12 years.

Between 1844 and 1855, Jenny Marx bore seven children, only three of 
whom lived into adulthood: Jennychen, Laura and Eleanor. All three 
daughters grew up “living and breathing historical materialism,” as 
Rachel Holmes tells us in her new biography, “Eleanor Marx,” but none 
breathed it in more deeply than this youngest child. When she was a 
teenager her mother referred to her as “eine Politikerin von top to 
bottom”; to which her father added that his other two children were like 
him, but Eleanor was him. And indeed, while the two elder sisters 
married “likable, liberal Bluebeards who lassoed their desire with 
babies,” Eleanor grew up to become a major player in the rise of British 
socialism, living her life in an unbroken extension of the one into 
which she had been born.

She was a lovely girl — her eyes dark and expressive, her hair a mop of 
black curls — and from earliest childhood smart, passionate, 
argumentative. Although in love with literature and languages, music and 
theater, it was always radical politics that set her on fire. Socialism 
ran in her veins and glowed on her skin. Before she was 20 she was 
arguing that the English worker movement was at a standstill, something 
had to be done, and she was aching to do it.

The first British socialist organization (called the Democratic 
Federation) was formed in 1881. When it was re-formed in 1884 as the 
Social Democratic Federation, Eleanor was among its initiating members. 
Until her death 17 years later, she lectured and wrote on behalf of 
socialism; helped organize strikes, rallies, election campaigns; and 
played a role in the internecine struggles that went on in every 
socialist group to which she belonged. Often she was perceived as a 
highhanded steamroller who acted as though socialism was her private 
property (after all, she was her father’s daughter, wasn’t she?), but 
just as often it was clear that the oppressed of the earth were very 
real to her — “Sometimes I wonder how one can go on living with all this 
suffering around” — and her honest belief in the virtue of socialism ran 
deep. In a letter she wrote in 1885, while arranging for a Christmas 
festival for children, she said, “We cannot too soon make children 
understand that Socialism means happiness.”

When she was 27 years old, Eleanor met Edward Aveling — freethinker, 
biology teacher, disciple of Darwin — in the British Museum’s Reading 
Room. They began living together, and she drew him into her innermost 
political circles. Soon they were a power couple, with Aveling on the 
podium as often as Eleanor. It was her extraordinary energy that almost 
invariably led the intellectual way, but they were, in fact, a 
remarkably successful team. If it was she who dreamed up subject after 
subject for them to speak, write or organize around, Aveling was always 
ready to fall in with her suggestions, and he reveled in all that made 
Eleanor worthwhile. Her intellectual passion, her political 
high-mindedness, her steadfast devotion to the Cause — for all this he 
loved her. Yet he told her that he couldn’t marry her because he was 
already married and lied that he couldn’t get a divorce. (He later 
concealed the fact of his wife’s death.)

Aveling was considered an excellent speaker and a reliable socialist, 
but he was also seen — and this quite early — as a man of little moral 
worth. Not only was he an open womanizer, but whenever he took financial 
control of a project (as he often did) no one could balance the books. 
He hungered for good clothes, expensive restaurants, cabs and theater 
tickets, and was indifferent as to how those desires were satisfied. 
“The best was good enough for him,” sneered one comrade, “at no matter 
whose expense.”

The person at whose expense Aveling generally made himself comfortable 
was, of course, Eleanor. Besotted throughout her time with him, she was 
yet often miserable. Aveling was selfish, nasty, petty, and three times 
out of five not there when she needed him; a hypochondriac of some 
dimension, he was forever going off to take “the cure” somewhere (really 
to rendezvous with other women), leaving Eleanor alone for weeks on end. 
As the years went on, the discrepancy between a crowded public life and 
a lonely personal one weighed ever more heavily on her.

Yet she couldn’t give him up. Why? Let me hazard a guess.

Like Rosa Luxemburg and Emma Goldman before her, Eleanor suffered the 
burden of occupying a singular position, that of a powerful woman in an 
overwhelmingly male world where, to put it bluntly, she was experienced 
as a freak: the denatured brilliant exception who is neither fish nor 
fowl. Each of these women was more alone than any of their male comrades 
could ever be. The men whom they loved, insufficient as they were — 
Rosa’s Leo Jogiches was a sociopath, Emma’s Ben Reitman a satyr and 
Aveling, an exploiter of the first order — were genuinely respectful of 
the brilliance of mind and spirit with which these valiant women were 
endowed. Mad, vain, selfish as the men were, in their company the women 
felt more than cherished or admired, they felt known. For this, they 
could not easily free themselves of the humiliations inherent in 
relationships that in all instances were degrading, and in one fatal.

Need anything more be said to justify 200 years of struggle to establish 
women on something that resembles a level playing field?

Rachel Holmes’s biography of Eleanor Marx is probably more hagiographic 
than it should be — its opening line is “Eleanor Marx changed the world” 
— but it captures vividly the drama of a woman with a hunger for the 
world who did her damnedest to live life on the largest terms possible, 
and to a very considerable degree succeeded.

Vivian Gornick’s latest memoir, “The Odd Woman and the City,” will be 
published in May.

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